
The journalist Andy Rooney once wrote that “One of the most glorious messes in the world is the mess created in the living room on Christmas.”
If you and I have left those very messes in order to be here this morning, well, think of the glory that awaits us upon our return!
Rooney is right, of course.
When you consider the overabundance of joy that comes into our homes and our lives on Christmas, a little chaos is a small price to pay.
Where your family may be different than mine is that in my family, Christmas is a day not only for opening new presents, but also for remembering previous ones.
The opening of presents seems to take us back to other years and other living rooms, with other family, some of whom are gone now or moved away.
But I don’t want to misrepresent the spirit of our remembering.
We Grants are not particularly sentimental folk.
So what you need to understand is that at Christmas, the tales we love most to tell are the ones that recall the Great Duds of Christmas Past.
There was year my mother got my grandmother, her mother-in-law, a strand of pearls for Christmas…and my grandmother got her a stuffed cat.
There was the year when my mom got a salad shooter for the second Christmas in a row from the same person, although at least it came in a box the second time around. (I had insisted on that box.)
There was the year my grandmother got everyone nutcrackers, each one themed to our hobby at that time—my father’s was an admiral nutcracker. I got a golf nutcracker.
This was just your average misfire until my uncle got to his, which was not a carpenter nutcracker in line with his hobby, but was, perplexingly, a shoemakernutcracker, which had nothing to do with anything.
There is disagreement in our family about what happened next.
We’re divided about whether he actually put it in the fire that day.
If you’re interested, the actual disagreement centers on whether our family still used the fireplace at that point, but not whether my uncle was the kind of person who would throw his Christmas present into one.
Getting into the spirit of the Great Duds of Christmas, one of my daughters never fails to recall the year that we did not achieve “even-steven” on their presents, and she had to sit there watching as the other one worked through one backlog and then another and then another. Or so she says.
Of course, there are also the moments when we have managed to get it right.
Everyone has those, although they may not be quite so fun to tell.
But you’ll remember those moments when, there amid the glorious mess of the living room, someone receives a gift that is truly wonderful.
For just a moment, a hush seems to fall over everyone as the recipient takes it in.
I love that hush.
It’s a respectful silence unlike any other because it recognizes, not that someone has gotten something that they really really wanted, but a much deeper gift: it’s what it’s like to witness a moment when someone feels they have truly been seen.
We go quiet in the presence of a much holier kind of joy.
Such moments remind us that, while we may be quick to console one another for a dud gift by saying “well, it’s really the thought that counts,” there are gifts that really do count—moments that take account of us in a particularly powerful way.
There’s a moment in C.S. Lewis’ novel, The Lion, The Witch, and the Wardrobethat seems to point to this kind of joy.
You may not particularly remember that when we first see Narnia, the land on the other side of the wardrobe, it is under a witch’s spell.
The spell is keeping the land in a perpetual, joyless winter which Christmas cannot break through.
Do you remember the grim joke during the first months of COVID that today’s date was the 97th of March, or what have you?
That’s more or less what Lewis is imagining as the spell of a perpetual winter.
But slowly, the witch’s powers begin to weaken, until one day, the characters at the heart of the story hear sleigh bells in the distance—and it turns out that, at last, and for the first time in ages, Father Christmas has been able to come in.
The moment is described as having a certain surprise.
“Some of the pictures of Father Christmas in our world make him look only funny and jolly,” the story says. “But now that the children actually stood looking at him they didn’t find it quite like that. He was so big, and so glad, and so real, that they all became quite still. They felt very glad, but also solemn…Lucy [she’s one of the children] felt running through her that deep shiver of gladness which you only get if you are being solemn and still.”
This reminds us of what we sometimes see reflected in the giving of very special gifts: a particular love that shines through the stillness of such moments.
There’s a lesson in that, too.
As an anchor point for faithful people, Christmas is trying to talk about God’s love, which arrives for us “so big, and so glad, and so real” that it first evokes that same stillness, and then a “deep shiver of gladness.”
To look around us, it may not seem that still.
We celebrate Christmas with tremendous gusto, whether that’s in the form of the glorious mess in the living room, the recitation of the Great Duds of Christmases Past, the biggest tree that could possibly fit in our house, or the loudest sweater we can possibly find to wear for the office party.
(Someday, I should try to do a sermon about the theology of ugly sweaters. Come back next year, everybody!)
Some of you may even have taken part in an informal “Whammageddon!” contest.
If you don’t know what that is, it’s about trying to avoid the insipid 80s pop song, “Last Christmas,” by the superstar duo, Wham!, whom some of us remember well.
Anyway, in “Whammageddon,” the last one standing (the last one not hearing the song) is the one who “wins.”
It’s the “-aggedon” part that interests me – as in Armageddon, from the Book of Revelation.
It suggests that the Christmas season is an epic battle…a battle that we can only win through some kind of avoidance.
Certainly, it reminds us of how hard it can be to unplug ourselves from the world’s chatter, even when we really try.
I’m actually not that gloomy about it.
I think the real joy, and the real point, is in losing the game.
Its underlying message is that, like that particular song, Christmas works unrelentingly to find us.
Whenever and however we manage to get captured are things to be celebrated, and recognized as sources of laughter and community, those two great heralds of God’s kingdom.
God bless the gusto of Christmas – the glorious mess of it. Even the duds.
But bless also the stillness of its arrival in our hearts.
It comes to remind us of how profoundly we’ve been seen, how intimately we are known, and how tenderly we are cared for, not only by those dearest to us, but even more fully by God.
It always takes our breath away and fills our hearts with love.
Amen.

